Whatever it is to you, it’s a getaway. A departure. A chance to see the world. I grew up traveling with my family because my father worked for an airlines. The education, adventure and bonding of traveling opened our minds to other cultures and created a global awareness and wanderlust.
This blog was originally created for designing family trip itineraries that are interactive and will engage the children in the entire process.Then it grew to add guest interviews of adults’ solo and couples’ trips and adventures. It has been fascinating to listen and learn from their experiences around the globe! Read the post Educational Family Travel Planning to learn how to make your kids the “docents!”
So–it has a little bit of everything; traveling solo to traveling with the family.
Quizzes, answer keys, hotel info, travel tips, excursion info and recipes are in this blog. Recipes and cuisine articles are also included. Domestic travel is also included. Glamping, Voluntourism, Agritourismo, Worldschooling, Culture, and Philanthropy and everyday passions are examples of concepts on the Gypsy Family Travel blog. Whether luxury travel or more rustic, casual travel….come be a part of our gypsy family.
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Explore. Dream. Discover. – Mark Twain.
photos from my various blogs….
With every destination on this blog (international or domestic), you can apply this lesson plan to build trip itineraries with your family. The menu tab on the far left “About Gypsy Family Travel” has all the educational blogs and the far right tab “Quizzes” has both quizzes and answer keys.
A Magic Carpet Ride is a travel book about family travels and personal journeys.
“It was hard to comprehend how blue the ocean was on these Rodos beaches. We parked our rental car on the side of a village road to take photos. Outside of a restaurant called Panorama Cafe, we stood there in disbelief to absorb the panoramic view. It was at that moment that I first realized that the ocean water in Greece has layers to its hues. Closest to the shore, the water is clear, then green, then Mediterranean blue, then navy blue and then, miraculously, purple. Together they make that Grecian blue but if you look closely, it’s layers of blue except on the island of Lefkada, where it is solidly the most turquoise blue the eye can absorb. It was opaque, thick, sensuous and shockingly turquoise blue.
On the boat cruises through the Ionian islets off Lefkada, all I can remember feeling is ecstasy of physical feelings of happiness and peace. The body was totally consumed with the feeling of happiness, separate and together with the mind and soul. Every fiber of my being was out there in that sea of turquoise, lapping up every breeze, every wave crashing, every beam and ray of sun shining on us.”
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In writing this book, I learned even more historic facts about the various countries we visited. There are recommended hotels, restaurants, excursions and recipes included as well as cultural nuances and historic factoids.…for those who are interested! There’s also a lesson plan for children illustrating how to implement itinerary building collaborations.
With every destination on this blog (international or domestic), you can apply this lesson plan to build trip itineraries with your family. The menu tab on the far left “About Gypsy Family Travel” has all the educational blogs and the far right tab “Quizzes” has both quizzes and answer keys.
Jewelry never ceases to intrigue me. It’s like a magnet. I am always drawn to it because I feel a certain energy from each piece I wear. Jewelry inspired by travel is even more compelling. Handmade, artisan jewelry is my favorite kind and I met some local jewelry artisans who create some gorgeous pieces which really represent the authenticity and spirit behind them. When I discovered the gypsy connection to the artists, I had to interview them for gypsyfamilytravel! It turns out we had in common a love for world travel and cultures.
Your website is amazing….what got you started in this craft and industry?
Really, it started when I was living down in Mexico. I went down there to travel, learn Spanish and see the world a little bit. I ended up meeting some artisans who were making jewelry selling in the open marketplace and started making jewelry with them. For me, at that time, It was more like “how can I fund my travels, stay here longer and do something interesting?” I’d sell in the marketplace, trade for tamales and live very “gypsy.” Then, I fell in love with it. When I came back to the states, my friend had a coffee shop and I asked her if I could sell my jewelry in there. It did really well so I kept adding to other shops, doing shows, eventually galleries and it has organically grown. Two years ago, we decided to go all in and make it our full time gig.
I’ve seen your jewelry at Shades of Brown. Is that the coffee shop you’re talking about?
So you’re bilingual?
I learned Spanish there, in Mexico. I went by myself first to a tiny little town called Castro….with dirt streets and noone there who speaks English. I just made myself learn….
What inspired your tattoo? (she has a large tattoo on her arm)
I love birds. I thought maybe that I was going to be an ornithologist so I did different internships in Portugal and at the Sutton Avian Research Center and decided I didn’t really want to be a scientist but I still love birds. A quote from their website: “I traveled through Switzerland and Italy on my way to Portugal where I studied migratory birds in the small coastal town of Mexilhoeira Grande with scientists from all over Europe. After returning to Oklahoma, I began working at the Sutton Avian Research Center in Bartlesville. It was a thrill to work hands on with all kinds of birds; ravens, flamingoes and bald eagles, but much like the birds I was caring for, I had a drive to search out new horizons and soon traveled south. In Mexico, I made friends with artisans who sold their beautiful jewelry in the streets and marketplaces. They shared techniques, teaching me skills I would use to create my own jewelry. It was invigorating and inspiring to sit with seasoned artists in the open air markets of Mexico and sell my first pieces of jewelry. I continued my way south to Guatemala to volunteer with an organization called Maya Pedal, where I first learned the art of welding. Visiting the beautiful Lago de Atitlan, I met amazing South American silversmiths selling jewelry. A flame ignited within me and when I eventually returned home to Tulsa, I enrolled in a silversmithing class and I’ve never been without a torch and some metal since. “
Do you ever incorporate them into your jewelry?
I do! I actually have a show at the TAC Gallery and it’s all bird pieces. (Brady Street between Tavern and the Record Shop.)
Are you at all of the First Friday Art Crawls?
I’m familiar with what a silversmith is….are you one?
Yes, I am. That’s the technical term. I also like to say I’m a metalsmith because I do like to work with other metals. (copper, etc) And I do sculptural pieces as well like yard pieces done in steel or copper. Silver is my main medium but I like bringing other tones into it.
Tulsa has such a great community of local artists! It seems like wherever you go, they support local art, lately. The domino effect of that is so exciting!
Yeah, it really is.
Do you have a long term goal or have you reached it?
I definitely have a long term goal. The goal for me is to be able to travel with my kids and spend a few months outside of Oklahoma but come back here. Ideally, I’d be making custom one of a kind pieces of jewelry for people.
What’s the most rustic trip you ever took…either for jewelry or in general?
We usually try to incorporate a show with some kind of other thing ….so we went out to Flagstaff and did an art show there and did some volunteer work up on the Navajo reservation for a few weeks. Out there, there was no running water, no electricity, and we were helping a Navajo elderly couple who didn’t speak English. (only Navajo) We helped herd their sheep with them, haul water, cook food….they’re in their eighties now.
Do you still keep in touch?
Yes, we do! We try to go out there every year.
Do you have to keep in touch by being there since you can’t communicate in the same language?
I send them letters and their grandkids can translate when they visit them on the weekends. We have an awesome relationship with them. It’s very sweet.
Is your studio a store that is open for customers to come to and shop? What is your price range?
For two months, we’ve had open hours. Tues-Friday, 12-4 pm. but I’m here all the time so I tell people to just give me a call. My price range is $50 to $1,000.
Do you have a favorite city you’ve visited?
There’s a little island in Mexico called Holbox.…it’s not very well known but you can go on boat tours to see whales. It’s very laid back, not touristy. The tourists who go there are Mexican. I loved it there.
How are you tied into Mexico? Do you have a connection?
I just figured they’re our neighbor and I should be friendly with them and learn to speak Spanish because there’s many Hispanics here.
Will your kids learn to speak Spanish?
Yes, we speak to them some in Spanish and it’s our goal to return there with them or a Latin American country.
Was your husband, Seth, a silversmith when you met?
No. He’s always been an artist making some form of art. I traveled alone in Mexico, so did he and then we traveled there together for awhile. At that time, he was playing music and I was making jewelry. He got little gigs to play music and I’d go sell jewelry. Eventually, when this became more of our staple job, he ended up coming to make jewelry and got really into it. (On their website, it says, “Seth’s art is focused on connecting our designed environment to the inspiration of Nature.”)
Is it ever hard for you all to “turn off” your craft? Are you able to shut down or are you so engrossed in it?
It’s pretty hard to shut down. Sometimes, it affects me a lot how much I’m thinking about it….how much energy I’m giving it, even just lying in bed at night. With kids, it’s been good to have a separate studio because for a long time, we studioed out of our home. When our kids were younger, it was good because of nursing or them needing me a lot more. But once my daughter was two years old, I needed more of a separation. When you’re making a living from your art, you’re wearing more of an entrepreneurial hat and your creative hat. That’s been a struggle to find that balance.
Do you have an entrepreneurial mentor?
I do have one but I’m looking for someone with different perspective…..
Have you been inspired by any particular artists or mostly the Mexican culture?
Mostly the Mexican culture. I’m definitely inspired by female artists–not necessarily female metalsmiths but any artists out there making their art because they are out there doing what they love.
Click on this video from their website to learn more about their family and business…..
I was able to watch some of her jewelry making process with these authentic silversmithing tools which were fascinating. I was so enriched to discover the inspiration that goes into the artistry, the natural connection and the gypsy spirit which continues to inspire this collection. It makes wearing my pieces from them even more meaningful. The fact that they are so unique and have custom pieces make them perfect for gifts!
One goal I had for my time in India was to do yoga there. It didn’t matter to me if it was in a true yoga class setting or just me alone with my Warrior Yoga DVD that I love. In the fast pace of our touring and all of its scheduled appointments with tour guides and van pick ups, it appeared that it was not going to transpire for me although I did see some classes available at our resort. After several days of sightseeing in India’s “Golden Triangle” of Dehli-Agra-Jaipur, we departed for Udaipur which was the location of the wedding we were fortunate enough to attend.
But one early morning during the wedding weekend extravaganza, when I could not sleep in, I went out on the hotel balcony to gaze at the mountains of Udaipur. The dark and ominous sky on this quiet, still morning felt like when night meets day as it was still not dawn. Basically, I was out on my balcony while my son slept with nothing to do but absorb this stillness on the other side of the world; …. “sharing the same moon” as I have interpreted about the cosmos while traveling. I made tea as quietly as I could and took a book out there but couldn’t really read it since I wasn’t going to turn on the light and disturb my nineteen year old sleeping son.
Instantly, I got the idea of what to do in the quiet stillness and dark. I didn’t have a yoga mat but I did have my yoga DVD and laptop so I put it on mute and spread out a long hotel bath towel and with my balcony doors thrown open, I stretched and meditated to the Udaipur sky as the dawn emerged. I have often read about “kundalini” moments and the awakening and bliss that are components of kundalini. I was too exhausted from all of the wedding energy and I wasn’t really anticipating a rigorous yoga session this morning but I love and cherish that it came to me to have a namaste moment there in this country. Namaste, meaning “I bow to your true self”, is exactly what I was feeling at that moment—a respect for this country and culture and a respect for what my body was telling me to do and feel at that moment. My “true self” was physically tired from this intense traveling but my emotions were somber and enlightened by the transformation taking place in this Indian experience.
Yoga is mind, body, spirit and at that moment, my mind, body, spirit welcomed this yoga experience communing with the Udaipur mountain range better than I could have experienced in a yoga class in the hotel somewhere. This was an opportunity to do yoga quietly out of respect for my son’s slumber. I later learned that is also a component of the “spirit” to demonstrate self sacrifice and courtesy. I read about those elements in a yoga book but until they came to life in a tangible way, they weren’t relevant to me….until India. Travel is a wonderful portal to discovery. Changing your routine brings about these discoveries.
We learned about architecture, history, culture and wedding celebrations in inspirational India, as we expected. And, as with any family traveling, we discovered and celebrated deep family dynamics and connections as we embarked on learning exotic Indian rituals, wedding dances and how we could challenge ourselves to push through the whirlwind and joyous exhaustion to fully engage in a new land.
India was full of color, fabrics, spices, costumes, animals and auras. Namaste.
adapted from A Magic Carpet Ride by Gina Michalopulos Kingsley. (link below)
Ask anyone what their favorite road trips have been and they’ll almost always be able to instantly recall experiences that are permeated by memories–both good and challenging! The open road has been the backdrop for many family memories of togetherness and bonding. It’s where many family dynamics have been negotiated and hilarious mishaps have occurred.
How times have changed, too, for the typical family road trip now that technology has introduced so many devices we can either take along or insert into our cars; auxiliary cords, dvd players, etc…..Road trips are such welcome modes of transportation now that air travel has become more complicated, less glamorous and inconvenient considering many airlines don’t even feed you anymore!
Here is a list of recommended road trips from various friends (and their quotes):
Santa Fe, New Mexico
Lake Powell, Arizona
Meow Wolf in Santa Fe, “it’s a super crazy cool museum”
“Mt Rushmore is another one. We drove East to West on I90. There is a lot of dead air but a ton of stopping places you must see. The Corn Palace in Mitchell, South Dakota as well as the….”
“Badlands which look like you are in the moon, & Wall Drug where you can see the old west come alive.”
“One of my favorites is the Porcupine Mountains in Michigan. God’s thumbprint on Earth.”
” We love to do Amtrak from OKC to Ft Worth. It is a weekend adventure, not expensive, I only allow backpacks, you can bring your own food on board. The history there is amazing” and….
“You can extend your trip all the way to San Antonio which is a blast! But much longer journey.”
“Minnesota for Mall of America….the entire state is gorgeous.”
“I also love, love, love Savannah, GA. You can literally hear Scarlett O’Hare say “Frankly my dear…”
“Route 66!!! It was a great trip!!! Stop at all the fun places and just play!!!”
Corn Palace in Mitchell, SD”
Bob Feller Museum in Van Meter, IA
Pro Football Hall of Fame in Canton, OH
Wall Drug in Wall, SD
Minneapolis Sculpture Garden
My personal, recent favorite road trips have been to Nashville and Memphis and always St. Louis, Arkansas and best of all, Kansas City. Chicago was congested; Austin, too…..but still enjoyable. Colorado is always worth it. Santa Fe and Taos have also been repeated road trips. I like the landscapes and don’t feel it’s as congested as some cities within Texas. Urban destinations and metropolises are our preferred vibe but I do enjoy letting my mind wander among the country scenery and rural landscapes.I like the Life 360 app on my phone so that my sons can track us if they need to. It’s also helpful if you lose your cell phone because the other members on Life 360 can track it to see where it is. (see link below) Roadtrips are a good opportunity for the passengers in the car to watch DVDs or download movies to their laptops. There are limitless ways to enjoy road trips!
Italian food seems to always be our go-to on date night. Well, only because we mostly cook Greek food at home. Especially in our beloved Kansas City, we frequent the delectable options of Italian bistros. We have our favorites for sure but we are always open to suggestions. Just think about all the ways to name an Italian restaurant for a minute—-cafes, osterias, trattorias, ristorante, enotecas, fattorias, cucinas, bistro…
Before you think, “ummm….Italian food is so rich….” just remember that smaller portions of rich foods can be enjoyed, too. If you have ever watched Extra-Virgin or Giada on Food Network, you’ll see that trim Italians have mastered the euphoria of culinary enjoyment with healthy living. They savor the flavors while they create their masterpieces but they don’t have to necessarily over- indulge. I recently learned (by watching Extra Virgin) the origin of bruschetta (pronounced /broosketa/. Gabriele, the chef, explained that in the old days when people were too poor to own plates, they used stale bread as a plate or method of bringing their food up to their mouths with brushcetta! The toppings on the bread made this “meal” complete. Now that I know that, I love bruschetta even more. (Just ask my good friend Diane! She knows all about my love for bruschetta.)
Foods based in healthy olive oil, veggies and moderation of good cheese topped off with antioxidant rich vino embodies the expression “All Things in Moderation” or as the Greeks say, “Pan Metron Ariston.” It’s like a word-palindrome—all things in moderation; moderation in all things.”
There are various ways that Italian dining establishments are called. For example, …
cafe: an informal establishment
osteria: a pub where the focus is on wine, pasta, grilled meat or fish
trattoria: family owned establishment
ristorante: an Italian restaurant
enoteca: a casual wine bar
fattorias: family owned but produces its own products
bistro: a small tavern, bar or restaurant
Let’s talk VINO! You all may know by now that my favorites are Red Zinfandels and Malbecs. Earthquake and Saldo reign supreme for Red Zins and Pascual Toso wins the prize for Malbecs.
Let’s talk cheese!!! Burrata, specifically. You’ve probably had it but do you know what it is? Burrata is a pouch of mozzarella with a cream inside. It’s not mozzarella itself. Kind of complicated. It’s curd and cream. I’ve bought burrata before at the grocery store and attempted to make a salad with it—much like the one I love at Flemings. It is stringy and loose. It was a complicated mess and much easier to just order at a restaurant. But, it’s good to attempt things at least. Add some arugula, cherry tomatoes and crostinis and you have an authentic Italian ensalada.
Fried artichokes. Let’s celebrate the fried artichokes of Italian cuisine. Eggs, milk, bread crumbs, parmesan, garlic, olive oil, lemon, mayonnaise or mustard….find a recipe you like. This appetizer will whet your whistle every time. My favorite fried artichokes were at Il Piato in Tulsa. (no longer open)
Grappa and Limoncello. Lastly, let’s talk liquor. Grappa and limoncello. What Ouzo is to the Greeks, Grappa is to the Italians. Limoncello is a homemade lemon liquor. You could say it’s like the Italian’s classy version of moonshine. I’ve enjoyed some grappa at Lidia’s in KC– a rustic farmhouse atmosphere.
Cappucino or Espresso. After all the indulging or moderate-tasting of this sumptuous cuisine, many of us like to finish the meal with the magic beans of the coffee gods….and something sweet. Tiramisu? Italian cream cake? (Right, Diane?) Those are my choices. Look at this cappuccino–why do you think it has a heart in it? Because I’m in love with it, that’s why. We are in a relationship, all of us, with coffee. So, there is a brief lexicon of Italian cuisine 101. The best way to obtain the knowledge about these establishment is to just ask the staff! They usually LOVE to talk about their relationship with cuisine and vino, the origins of the recipes and their favorite wines. This is another reason why Italian bistros, etc are perfect date nite experiences.
Our favorite Italian ristorantes in America are: Cucina Della Ragazza in KC, Lidia’s in KC, Biga in Tulsa and our own kitchen in our house.
Planning a trip to Nashville was half the fun! I sent off for a tourism booklet/visitors guide of Nashville Music City and read it weeks before I was ready to narrow down my itinerary. There is so much to choose from while planning a trip to Nashville and we were also going to include a stop in Memphis to see Graceland and the historic Peabody hotel.
Here was the method to my madness. We are not huge country music fans. In fact, we are not really country music fans at all but I love the show Nashville and we are all big Johnny Cash fans. I knew I wanted to see the Bluebird Cafe, featured on the TV show Nashville, and I have always been interested in the Grand Ole Opry for its historic significance, obviously. My then 20 year old son is a musician for fun, so I wanted to take him down Music Row and to see a live performance. My husband was mainly interested in the barbecue since Nashville is barbecue country. The distance to Nashville and Memphis make it a somewhat convenient car trip to fit in while two our sons were off at a weeklong summer camp.
Here’s how I narrowed it down. Looking at lodging, I knew we’d want to stay in the famous Gulch district. There’s not a lot of availability there during June so my next option was to check out AirBnB which is becoming a popular alternative to hotels. Air BnBs are so convenient. Throw in an Uber to everywhere and you’re truly on vacay. I found a writer’s bungalow which I thought was appropriate since I planned to write about our trip while we were there!
A home or apartment also gives us more space and bedrooms rather than three adults all being in one hotel room. I love the idea of having a refrigerator to bring delicious leftovers back to in our bungalow! The pictures of rocking chairs on the front porch sealed the deal! Authentic Nashville living! I told my son to bring his guitar and ukulele so he could entertain us on the porch while we sat in rocking chairs. With this location, we could Uber to the Gulch district four miles away. The Nashville trolleys and tour buses would also be a convenient way to cover a lot of ground and hop off and on at various landmarks. The tour guides on board are an added perk!
Next, I started to narrow down the excursions we’d see. I wanted to leave plenty of time to just experience the city and meander through Music Row and Gulch district. Admission to the Johnny Cash museum seemed easy so I printed off that information. I reserved tickets online for Grand Ole Opry and chose a night based on the performers. I recognized Charlie Daniel’s Band and thought that was perfect since my husband and I were familiar with this band and their megahit during our teen years–“The Devil Went Down to Georgia“. I also knew my son is a big fan of their musicianship. Perfect!
Other highlights would be to check out Bluebird Cafe and of course, dine in the authentic Nashville pubs. Of course, we planned to visit the Parthenon which is a replica of the real Parthenon in our ancestral homeland of Greece. Andrew Jackson’s Hermitage was a halfway experience and a recommended spot for historians. It will give you a taste of that era in history as people are in period dress and you get to tour his plantation estate and museum. Hattie B’s Hot Chicken is a legendary restaurant that people line up for around 10:30 a.m. for lunch….authentic and spicy!
After Nashville, we planned to go to Memphis which is three hours away. I reserved tickets online to Graceland–Elvis’s mansion and grounds. There are simple tours and deluxe tours showing more of his collections and memorabilia. I knew we’d stop by the Peabody Hotel to watch the famous ducks inside. We made reservations at the Residence Inn Hotel downtown which is moderately priced but planned to have coffee and dessert at the Peabody Hotel to include this historic site on our itinerary.
The drive from Tulsa to Nashville is approximately 9 hours and 3 hours from Nashville to Memphis. Memphis back home to Tulsa would take 5 hours and I planned accordingly to arrive in time to pick up our other sons at the airport who were arriving from their summer camp trip. A six day trip by car like this was a good way to see a region of Americana that has always interested me. The Loretta Lynn Museum was located between Nashville and Memphis and well worth it!
Although there are great websites for trip planning, I recommend a good old fashioned tourism booklet for easy reference in my purse. This seems more durable and transportable than a file folder of printed off website pages. Highlighted info in the booklet along with my pre-printed museum, show tickets and lodging info made us good to go! Beale Street and the Cooper Young district are must-sees in Memphis. Memphis, Graceland, Beale Street and Cooper Young are all covered on this blog (search it in the search bar). So, there you are–3-4 days in Nashville and 1-2 in Memphis is a do-able road trip time frame to see two fabulous Tennessee cities. Fun for all ages!
I recently learned that my cousin created a family tree. He shared it with me as part of a conversation we had regarding our church’s upcoming 100 year anniversary and the various archives related to that. Even if my own family hadn’t been included on this family tree, I still would’ve been fascinated with his project because of what he’s learned in the process and the diligent and meaningful skills it involved. My favorite cousin and I share so much in common…..a love for all things organizational, family history and a passion for spreadsheets, archives and even a ledger that has spanned the generations. Not only did we have a childhood, pretend detective agency together but our famous ledger tradition got passed down to the next generation when our kids took it over to continue the legacy.
I asked Dean to describe the family tree process to me because I know it will be inspirational to others who are contemplating how to start a family tree. People probably attempt this project in various methods and I knew Dean’s would not only be methodical but also meaningful and personal. What a significant and sentimental project to pass down to one’s progeny.
What inspired you to do the family tree?
I didn’t want to lose some of the knowledge of the elderly family members who helped me complete it. I wanted to be able to show my kids where they were from and how far back they could go.
What was the hardest thing about completing this project?
It was getting information beyond just my grandparents and having to reach out to my cousin in Greece, Angeliki, who had to get with her mom to fill in some more of the blanks. Between her side of the family and mine (my dad has already passed away), I needed to consult others with some of the knowledge.
Did you conduct this over Face Time or a phone call?
I emailed her part of the family tree which wasn’t completed to ask her if she could just answer some of the questions and fill in some of the blanks.
What a fun cousin project!—two first cousins doing that; how awesome! What’s hard about Greek family records is that there aren’t any before the year, what approximately?
Mine went back to the year 1865. Maria Hlepos was born in 1865. (mine and Dean’s common great grandmother) On the other side, I don’t know because they didn’t really keep their dates.
They didn’t really keep records that far back, correct? Maria Hlepos is mine and your common great grandmother and she lived to be 102. And all of her four children lived past the age of 83-96. This was the great grandmother that your mom and my mom sailed to Greece in 1950 to meet for the first time.
…And my mom met my dad there in the 1950’s on another trip.
What did you learn about yourself doing this project?
I wanted to see if anyone was from any other islands (other than Imvros) but we couldn’t go back further from 1860’s. Researching the family tree, I found stories about my grandfathers on both sides and how they were both U.S. citizens. One of them even went back to Greece to live.
Was your paternal grandfather a mechanic like your dad?
No, he worked as a Merchant Marine on ships. Once he got to America, he was in NYC dredging the harbor at one point and in Pennsylvania in the steel mills.
Do you know why he returned to Greece?
It has something to do with family life. His wife didn’t come over so he left his family back in Greece and then decided he wanted to go back home. This is similar to my great grandfather Niko Hlepos who came to work on the railroads in American in 1904. He returned to Greece in 1906, put his suit away and put back on his vrakes. (pantaloons of their folk dress)
So, your other grandfather, Jim Kademis, was also a citizen? From what I understand, he and my papou (grandfather) became restauranteurs because they didn’t want to be shoemakers in Paris like the other two brothers.
Yes, and my yiayia, (grandmother) lived with her brothers in Paris for awhile when times were dangerous for women from Imvros (her village taken over by the Turkish occupation). She was eighteen years old at the time. She married my grandfather and lived in St. Louis, then Bristow, Oklahoma and eventually Tulsa.
You already have natural organizational skills which helped you do this but was this template provided for you on the internet?
I started writing things down on a spreadsheet but this template was made using AutoCad, a computer program for engineering projects. I was doing this experiment to get acquainted with how the program works.
This is very inspirational. For someone who doesn’t know how to get started, what is your advice?
My advice would be to find your oldest living relative and start writing in a spiral notebook. You’ll come back to those notes and it helps you to know how to branch out. They’ll give you someone else’s name, etc. and it grows from there.
Are you going to frame this family tree and display it ?
Well, it’s a living document…it’s evergreen. (so, no) For example, my cousin Nicki’s son is a baby so we just added him; so it’s something that will keep growing. My other cousin just got married so we added his spouse. I’m keeping up with who’s getting married to whom…..I update this once a year if there’s any changes and I give a copy to my mom. (He’s even included his dogs’ names on the family tree!)
She must have been so impressed and sentimental!
I’ve given her a copy of a book (binder) I’ve written on our family which is like a resume with clippings and highlights.
Oh! I hope one of my sons does that for me! Do you have a favorite quote about family?
You can change your friends like you change your clothes but your family is like your blood…..so you don’t ever change that.
Afro-Latino dance troupes, Cuban salsa, and jazz filled our time in Havana. Ornate costumes, intimate jazz cafes and electrifying salsa ensembles livened up our days and nights. I learned some distinguishing characteristics of these art forms and their origins. Cuban art and entertainment has been described as a “bastion of talent and a stronghold of style.”
I was familiar with salsa being a Puerto Rican sound that was engineered further in the New York music scene of the 1970’s but I was not familiar with Cuban salsa. More specifically, there is a genre called Cuban son. Son appeared around 1917 in Havana. The African percussion and rhythmic instruments came from the African slaves’ journey to Cuba and were later joined by the instruments of marimba, bongos, quijada, timbales criollos and the cowbell.
The Afro-Latino dance performances we saw were very interpretive with their ornate costumes and trance-like, spiritual dance moves. The cultural blending that went into this music and dance genre is so rich and detailed that I would not do it justice summarizing it here, nor am I an expert. I do recommend reading further about it because it spans so many countries. The dance and music ensemble we watched were reportedly the 1991 Grammy winners of the Tropical Latin performance category.
Jazz also spans so many generations culturally and historically. It is also deeply rooted in African history and made a journey through political times as I recently learned at the American Jazz Museum in Kansas City. I never knew jazz descended from the African spirituals until recently. The shared humanity of musical expression is such a powerful, beautiful subject and art in our lives.
We saw other minstrels in the squares of Old Havana and modern dancers in Fabrica de Arte Cubano gallery as the art and music scene of Havana permeated the landscape. Music played in the background of cafes, taverns, seaside promenades and lunch restaurants. The rhythm of Cuba dominated the spirit and soul and continues to play in my home as I consolidate my photojournalistic memories. Viva Cuba!
Our panoramic tour of Havana took us to the Malecon boardwalk, Revolution Square and a rainforest, surprisingly! That’s one of the things I loved about Havana—there was such a range of landscape. At Revolution Square, we were first introduced to the sassy vintage cars which are so iconic of Cuba.
Every vibrant color you can think of seemed like it was represented in that parking lot. A sign in the background “Viva Cuba Libre” caught my attention. “Long live Cuba’s freedom”. How much freer can you feel than in a topless convertible? After some time exploring the cars, sitting in them, posing for pictures, we ventured on to other landmarks. Although this square’s parking lot had a concentration of vintage cars, we saw them throughout the landscape of Havana during our trip. We also rented one for an hour on our last morning there. The vintage cars are like beautiful jewels decorating the city streets. With possible impending transitions, many people have voiced that they hope this feature always remains part of the Cuban landscape.
The first day we arrived in Havana, Cuba, we had lunch, dropped our bags off to our casa particular and boarded our tour van for a panoramic tour of Havana and Vedado.The main sights included the Malecon coastal boardwalk and Revolution Square (which will be featured on another blog). Everything was so vibrant. That is the word that everyone seems to use when referring to Havana, especially.Right outside of our casa, a flock of chickens grazed and clucked. Every morning, we were awakened by a very dutiful chicken or rooster…. probably this one!
The tour around Havana and Vedado exposed us to color, activity, workers, government-run hotels, and the local casas particulares. By staying in casas with the locals, we were directly supporting the Cuban people on this People to People educational trip. I liked this concept.
Friendly Cubans walked over to greet me while I took photos. They asked where I was from (In Spanish) and luckily, I was able to answer basic questions. I found the people very accommodating about having their photo taken and I either tipped them or let them see the photo on the camera but they never pressured me for a tip. I found the latter detail interesting.
These grand homes painted in beautiful muted pastels have such great bones! The lush, tropical plants in front of them frame them perfectly. It was very rustic to see chickens fluttering by outside the entrances.
After seeing pedestrians and workers, we started to see the sassy vintage cars adorning the streets. Everyone associates Cuba with these vintage cars which decorate the cityscape. As people think of Cuba as “stuck in time”, the cars definitely take you back to that vintage era.
Now that we got acquainted with the area of Vedado where we were staying, our next stop would include a rainforest, Malecon boardwalk, Revolution Square with the sassy vintage cars and Hemingway’s house!
Hemingway’s house was a lovely drive into a lush valley town of San Francisco de Paula, outside of Havana. We viewed the rooms of his house through big, open windows.
After climbing the stairs to his writing studio tower, we enjoyed the grounds. It is said that Ava Gardner swam nude in his pool. We also viewed his boat, the Pilar.
Leaving the grounds, we drove to the seaside town of Cojimar where we had lunch at Bodega Las Brisas and met a fishermen who showed us photos of himself with the famous author. Hemingway’s experience in Cojimar is said to have been the inspiration for his novel, The Old Man and the Sea.photos by Gina Kingsley
Among the itinerary highlights of Havana and surrounding cities, a panoramic tour by car was definitely one of my favorite activities on our trip. You can absorb so much visually and up close. It was never a dull moment watching the street life and walking through a neighborhood or village.
What are the highlights of a Thanksgiving vacation at Big Cedar Lodge? They are PERFECTION! The unique combo of holidays during the gorgeous Fall season makes it a double whammy at BCL—Thanksgiving and Christmas all in one!
I personally like this particular time at Big Cedar because the weather can be as warm as 60 degrees and as brisk as 29 degrees. You can enjoy all the outdoor activities while still enjoying the fireplace in your lodging and at restaurants. We have stayed in each type of lodge there except for the Spring View lodge. The lodges we’ve stayed in include:
private log cabin
Wilderness log cabin
Valley View Lodge
Knotty Pine Cottage
Wilderness Club condo
I love the Wilderness Club cabins and condos area and it has a great proximity to the wilderness walk trails which end up at the main “village”, marina, etc. The private log cabins are quite a bit farther away from everything but quite stunning. Both Big Cedar and Wilderness Club have courtesy shuttles to transport you around but the walk is very accessible and short. The extra walking is worth it so you can indulge in the delicious food on site. Wilderness Club, with its Brushey Creek Clubhouse nearby, has another new feature !!- FUN MOUNTAIN! (with Uncle Buck’s Fishbowl and Grill)
Fun Mountain is located where the old horse stables and hiking trails were. You might be asking yourself, “Why would they add this to a wilderness resort where kids and families should concentrate on outdoorsy activities? fresh mountain air? valley views, etc.??” Once I checked it out with my teenage son and saw families interacting there, I understood! Fun Mountain is a great added feature for family reunions, destination wedding trips, etc….I realized that it gives families another option of indoor activities once they’ve no doubt enjoyed all the outdoor adventures. Personally, I’d just focus on the outdoor activities but this feature can certainly extend your stay here. Also, during the colder months, this feature gives an indoor option. When our other two college sons arrived, we showed them Fun Mountain and it seemed like nirvana to them after being immersed in a college class presentation and lab report that were due that very same day that they drove out to Big Cedar Lodge from University of Kansas. You definitely burn off steam when you can drive bumper cars that flip AND spin when they bump!
The activities at Fun Mountain include:
restaurant and bar
flip and spin bumper cars
regular bumper cars
big screen tvs
Nature Discovery Center for kids
30 foot slide
go carts (coming soon)and much, much more!
Examples of cottages and cabins:
With the week off of school this year, my teenager and I came up on Monday, the rest of our family met us on Tuesday and Wednesday due to work and college classes. Staggering our arrival came in handy in various ways. My teenager and I got some one on one time on the road trip up. Also, since he didn’t have his brothers to interact with, he and I spent time at an old favorite—the Lincoln Log table! (We’re never too old for Lincoln Logs–a beloved BCL tradition). He ventured from there over to the 500 piece puzzle; something he had never really done. When you have a break from school, extra-curricular activities and jobs, time for a 500 piece puzzle suddenly becomes available and enticing.
We followed a chipmunk to its habitat, walked across the Devil’s Pool swinging bridge and enjoyed the touches of Americana decor.
Walking the trails and paths of the resort, I heard pealing laughter of children ice skating on the rink, kids playing shuffleboard and others playing football.
All the Fall, Thanksgiving and Christmas decor and activities led us up to the Thanksgiving Buffet at Top of the Rock.
Traditionally, we’ve been celebrating Thanksgiving and splitting a cabin or condo with our cousins at Big Cedar. This particular year they couldn’t attend but we ran into several other families we knew from back home. We hope to resume our tradition again next year!This year, the boys rode the golf carts again on the Lost Canyon Trail and did the Natural History Museum on the same day as our Thanksgiving Buffet. That’s what I LOVE!! Everything is still open to enjoy on Thanksgiving Day so we purposely scheduled our feast for dinner time so we could enjoy the BCL mini golf and Top of the Rock activities. A little shopping at the General Store, a little happy hour on the balcony of Arnie’s Barn while the boys were off enjoying the nature…..
On the last day, we checked out and visited our beloved Dogwood Canyon a half hour drive away. Our sons look forward to their bike race through the canyon. This year, all of us enjoyed the wildlife tram ride together.
After several days of “pre-Hygge” cocooning together at Big Cedar Lodge as a family in this idyllic Ozark valley, an afternoon at Silver Dollar City and a day at Dogwood Canyon, I feel a little prepared to hunker down for winter hibernation now. I first have to get this “wilderness” pilgrimage out of my system. In the last 16 years, I’ve watched these boys go from infants and little boys catching their first fish to grown, young adult men driving their own golf carts and knowing the geology terms on the wildlife tram tour. We hope to keep returning and eventually going with our future grandkids to enjoy the journey all over again…. from playgrounds, canoe rides, kiddie park at Silver Dollar City, first roller coasters, and much more! Read these two blogs below for more features: